Don’t Confuse Networking With Card Swapping

Networking Tips

Effective networking is one of the best ways to build your business yet so many people do it so wrong.

The number one failing by business people is the delusion that –  card swapping equals networking. Card swapping benefits two parties – the printing industry and the cleaners.

 

At your next networking event spot these people:

Homer Simpsons: Hanging out with their mates and eating and drinking.  – Just go to a bar
Stalkers: Hounding the most famous person in the room – they will not remember who you are in the morning
Date Hunters:
chatting up the pretty people – this works (this is how I found my beautiful wife) but not good for building business
Card Sharks: thrusting cards into everyone’s hand – measuring success by the number of cards they bring back to the office – too many people operate like this

So how should you approach a networking event?

Aim to meet 1- 3 new people:  The goal of attending any networking event should be to commence establishment of 1 to 3 new relationships. There are plenty of networking opportunities; you will not build an entire network in one event. A relationship is based on knowing people well enough so that when you call them in six months’ time, they will remember who you are.  This is never done with simply swapping cards and giving them your elevator pitch. Take your time and get to know them and their business. My goal when I attend a conference is to make one new real connection.

Prepare your Elevator pitch: Make sure the first 60 secs that comes out of your mouth describes something about how you solve problems for your customers – not a speech about you and your technology or craft. Get outside help on testing your elevator pitch – look at attending an GMC Power Pitching workshop

Qualify your audience: Make an assessment on people, if they are not for you and they thrust a card in your hand – put their card into a different pocket and dump their card ASAP. If there is something of interest, dig deeper and remember to ask about them.

Talk to competitors: NZ SME’s do not work well with competitors. Learn to talk about your business without giving away the ‘secret sauce’. Explore opportunities for mergers and acquisitions or just plain collaboration.

Post Event: Follow up with an email or call in the next day or so – not from the other side of the room or in the car park as it appears desperate!

Linkedin: Linkedin.com is a powerful free networking tool. As well as providing an up to date database of your network, it more importantly gives you access to your network’s network. Start with a basic profile today if you do not already have one. The best uses of linkedin are: (i) reference checking new employees from your network, rather than those listed on the cv (ii) Getting introductions into businesses (iii) accessing potential employees, and (iv) participating in online interest group discussions. An interesting fact is in USA 80% of job placements are initiated via LinkedIn.

Groom and qualify your network: Take the time to groom and nurture your best contacts – use a contact schedule to make sure you stay on their radar – pass on links to relevant information to them.

Give and you shall receive: Relationships do not happen overnight, earn the trust and respect before asking favours.

Resources:

KEA: Kiwi Expats Abroad is an international network of passionate Kiwi’s who live abroad that want to help NZ businesses grow international markets   http://www.keanewzealand.com

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7 thoughts on “Don’t Confuse Networking With Card Swapping

  1. Nice blog Mark. You are so right on all points but so many people “don’t get it”.

    I have to admit to being Homer on occasion!

  2. Hi Mark,

    Hi from your ex-office neighbours in Wellington!Great tips on networking. :…earn the trust and respect before asking favours.” stands out for me.

    Your article will be very helpful to employees as well, as they work on their next career move – voluntarily or otherwise. I will share your article with our clients.

    Re Kiwi Expats abroad, the link you show is for the Kawerau Enterprise Agency! Did you mean http://www.keanewzealand.com/?

    Cheers, Ginny, Quince Associates Ltd

  3. Nice to see someone give permission to do it right. Too often I feel people feel pressure to get around the whole room and try and prospect everyone. It has never felt right to me and I enjoy networking events when you do make a deeper connection with people and get to know something about them. They are actually fun when you approach them with the right mindset

  4. Hi Mark,

    I enjoyed your blog. It’s a topic I talk about to people a lot, as like you I think so many are misguided as to what true networking is about. I do also confess to having been the card shark at times, usually when I’m not mentally prepared or I’m distracted by the long to do list running through my head.

    Even worse than normal networking is speed networking, the idea is sound but guess how bad that can be when most of the people in the room don’t understand ‘normal’ networking and don’t have that elusive 60 seconds worked out.

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